Welcome to Instinctive Life!

My dear friends,

I know you don’t have a lot of time, so I have chosen to be brief with the information shared here.  The objective of Instinctive Life is to Determine your purpose - what you were put on this Earth to do. 

In the process of determining your purpose...a lot of cool things happen:

• You find out who you are
• Relationship Issues are solved
• Job Searches become clearer, more directed
• The feeling of loss or despair is alleviated, harmony restored
• You now feel you have a compass or a beacon of light, showing you the way
• Spirituality is explored and in many cases, gained

So, if any of these things plague you...give me a call, explore the website and believe that somehow, things will change for the better. It IS possible, and you have what it takes to get there. To learn more, please click on The Process in the menu to the left.

Have a beautiful day,
Tammi

Weekly Vlog: Is This A Road I Want To Travel?

We often experience negative situations...or people! And in response, we find ourselves traveling mental paths that take us towards a fantasized end - whether it's revenge or a different outcome, it's something other than what happened. These paths feel justified, and even initially good - they make us feel partially vindicated and self-righteous. But in the end, does it make us feel any better than before, or doesn't it most often leave us in an even worse mental/emotional state than the one we left.

Don't take that road. As tempting as I know it is (I've done my own share of traveling), I also know from experience that I always, undboutedly feel worse than I did before I took that road. Bottom line, it doesn't change the person or the awful thing that happened. So no matter how good it may feel exacting some mental revenge, or fantasizing about the way things should have gone...the situation or the person still hasn't changed, and no progress has been made by you taking that mental road. And even though it may feel better temporarily, it inevitably leaves you right where you started, and that feels yucky.

So avoid the yuckiness, accept the person or the wrongful act immediately, do what you can to progress the situation, and then leave it at that. You will then never take on that moment or that person as mental baggage, and that, my friend, will leave you free and unburdened.

Have fun letting the yuckiness GO.




 
  

 

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